tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3201990052420085530.post6699880288300383948..comments2023-10-10T01:23:22.455-07:00Comments on MIMI Magazine: The Editor's Blog: Educating Yourself Out Of Marriage?MIMI Magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02938068892068272570noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3201990052420085530.post-31359335592784928722011-01-26T11:21:46.684-08:002011-01-26T11:21:46.684-08:00what is wrong with marrying someone who is "b...what is wrong with marrying someone who is "below" you....who has not achieved the same academic or financial success as you?<br /><br />You limit your "options" or "pool" when you filter people based on their accomplishments. My good friend is a high school soccer coach and his wife is a very successful doctor. <br /><br />If anything, most successful men unfortunately do not want to marry "successful" or women who are power players because it becomes a competition of who has the bigger balls*.<br /><br />It should about being tactful. Being respectful and finding someone who loves you and shares the same family values. And I honestly believe that God gave women the intuition* as a gift. If you are honest with yourself...which we women are not sometimes...we get carried away with our emotions....you will see the tell tale signs of a wrong suitor/gold digger*Mambi. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07275445724046824122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3201990052420085530.post-50056622233955715602011-01-26T04:08:22.552-08:002011-01-26T04:08:22.552-08:00I believe that the BUPPIE's comment was indeed...I believe that the BUPPIE's comment was indeed a case of the green-eyed monster. And that he was only speaking for himself and men like him.<br /><br />If you want to be married, you will avail yourself to men who meet and exceed your level of competence. They definitely exist.<br /><br />You're an achiever. If you want it, you can do this too.Jackiehttp://afeminineblackwoman.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3201990052420085530.post-33892347747756888962011-01-25T08:03:42.852-08:002011-01-25T08:03:42.852-08:00So true, but still painful to hear. When you reac...So true, but still painful to hear. When you reach a certain level of success who do you marry? The pool of eligible men gets a lot smaller it seems. What's the solution to this dilema? Wish I knew!<br />besos,lynnBESOS LYNNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06599283916798265999noreply@blogger.com